Change what you can. Accept what you cannot

Hi friends

This is another healthy topic for discussion... For peace of mind man has to follow the rule. When mind is confronted with obstacles & setbacks we can change our ways & lifestyle to suit the requirements & we will succeed. But sometimes we can’t change all the things. e.g. we cant change our past deeds, we cant turn backs our failures. So we have to accept them. However we can definitely change our self for d new opportunities lying ahead.

Reply 1

What else a person need for a piece of mind if he/she can follow “Change what you can, accept what you cannot". I think this is the only best mantra to have a piece of mind. Though it’s difficult to adopt but if a person can then there is no other better way for a person's peaceful state of mind.

Ultimately it is the satisfaction which matters and gives piece for mind but its not possible that very person is satisfied from his/her deeds & surroundings. So for a better state of piece of mind the above mantra will definitely be helpful indeed.

Reply 2

Change is the Law of life dude's, do accept the fact's and realize what we get, if we change a decision,, hopefully by changing a little thought or deed or greed , we can make Miracles.

Without accepting the fact that everything changes, we cannot find perfect composure. But unfortunately, although it is true, it is difficult for us to accept it. Because we cannot accept the truth of transience, we suffer - Shunryu Suzuki

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Reply 3

'Change what can't accept and accept what you can't change'

The saying actually boosts your strength. It clarifies that if you can't accept the conventions being followed, have the courage enough to change them with your strength and if you see that after putting in a lot of effort also, it’s not possible to go back and change the indigestible things, you should patiently accept it.

Reply 4

Every rule is not made for every body so I think to stay happy follow the rule which is applicable for you and just break the rule and make your own rule if this rule does not suits you and it is not use for you this is my personal opinion and I DO THE same thing.

Reply 5

"Change what you can" is no doubt a remarkable theme occurs during our life cycle. You think yourself what you have done till date?, you will find the answer and in most of the cases there will be a lot of changes within his span of life. Sometime he himself does not feel about his feelings, even he changes and changes and changes......We can named this phenomena as a dynamic life cycle through which we understand the value of life. Therefore while going through changes automatically occurred and if anything stand straight as experienced in life that must be removed. And if it seems to be strong enough then you must follow the corrective way through which it shall be regularized in near future. You should not deviate from your principle which is genuine then you must succeed. So accept "what you can not" should not be a right way to think about life. Past is always show the true way of future life, failure is also the pillar of future success and should not be forgotten. Hence we have to do all changes and accept all good things for mankind in every life.

Reply 6

Really we can not change our faults back.

For me, I took wrong decision for my job.

When I completed my graduation I had a need of job.

That why I joined in a job that’s not related to my qualification.

It’s already act of my years of time.

So I can't change that.